I know you are. We all are but you will not nice her back.

Seems her mind is made up right now.

God forbid what happens and things don't work? You will be stuck wishing you did things different during this time just like you wish you did things different during the marriage.

So besides my one motto of just get out of the way my other is hope for the best but plan for the worst.
You can still try to save things but you need to be able to survive if things don't go your way for a while.

Google the stockdale paradox. There are even pages where people explain it for relationships and divorce.

Head up!

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15