It feels my sitch might be different to a lot of others here as I believe my wife's immaturity changes the dynamics a lot. It's almost as if she is having a mid 20's crisis realizing now we have a child and responsibilities and life isn't all easy that she wanted to check out.
I don't know what cards to play at the moment. We are talking frequently and she finds a reason to contact me most days. I am playing it cool and only responding not pursuing conversations but if I commit to limiting interactions and conversations won't this push her away? Or is that necessary for her to experience loss? I really don't want to end up being a "friend" and I won't allow it but it's hard for me to tell if we are building back up towards fixing the R or if I am just slowly drifting into a friend zone.
I just don't want to slam a door shut and set myself back and push her away.
Any thoughts or experiences I would love to hear.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
