Thank you everyone thus far. I am doing everything I can to maintain my future focused attitude, and also making sure not to repeat history either. I am really hoping to find more solutions to getting my marriage back on track, I feel I will be just fine getting myself together but what can I do in the now that won't negatively affect the marriage?

Thank you all for being a part of this community, you make me feel welcome.

First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16