Just a couple of posts back you said that you know that you do not want to file (go look it up if you do not believe me). And I do know your pain you are experiencing. You are trying anything and everything to make the pain stop and go away. And you are trying to get a reaction out of your wife, you are hoping that once she sees you filed, she'd realize that the $hit hit the fan and she has to get her $hit together or risk losing you.
