Gents: I don't pretend to know anything more than you. Right now I don't see anything I'm doing as "working". I do struggle with the when to be strong and when to be accommodating. When I'm strong and make decisions she often finds that has consequences. When I trying to find common ground - that looks weak. Both, equally bad.
I'm always on the hunt for ideas from others - what's working, what is bring satisfaction, etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017