Thanks LiM. Ah yes detach.... seems to be the hardest thing for everyone on these boards.

I am working on making sure every interaction we have is/will be positive. This call is just so crucial because it really will set the tone for everything moving forward, whether that means we are together or not.

It's nerve-racking really.

It seems there are certain techniques that work better on WAW than WAH. It would be great to hear what has gotten the attention of/or worked with a WAH during these types of interactions.

WAW seem to respond more to the backing off and moving on with your life approach. What approach is better on WAH, with men that is? Or is there really no difference?

Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16