I hear what your saying, but for me it also has to do with the kids. I think the kids are going to have a hard enough time in the beginning getting used to living in two places. you throw in another person coming over and showing affection all over Mommy (and its not Dad)I believe it's really going to add to the confusion, And I personally will have a hard time not saying something if this were to happen. I know it wouldn't do any good, and probably make things worse. But I hope I'm able to detach and just act "as If".


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Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
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BD - November 20th 2015