Thank you Bigybiz, I think you are absolutely right with giving up on them physically will have a snowball effect and make other detachment easier. Taking baby's steps will make the process easier, good advice brother, I will take it to heart.

M:37 W:38
D:11,S:7,S:4
T:8, M:5
S:6/1/15 different beds
Physical Seperation 7/5/16
Startof NC 7/22/16