Hi Melo,

Your sitch sounds similar mine. I did not want debt with buying a house, so I have been saving for years and close to being able to buy now, but she says too little to late. I also had an emotional wall around me so tight that we failed to connect. She also refused MC a year ago as I knew we need assistance from the outside. She decided a D was best but is dragging her feet. I saw a lawyer last week also to protect myself because her mood swings have been pretty wild and she is prone to emotional decisions that can cause harm to the family and her when the dust settles.
Hang in there and know I am pulling for you as I am fighting/trying to survive a similar battle.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine