Yeah I don't think I'm going to pretend but not going to share the reason for the separation with anyone but my closest friends.

Had my first coaching session last night - got some interesting feedback around trying to be her friend through all this and putting my D first. I got validation on the custody agreement as it brings stability to her and it favors me. It also allows us to maintain a connection through all this as Friends.

She also suggested that the Birthday trip may be OK if managed correctly and expectations are set - since it would show her we can be a family and also would be good for our D. Still on the fence about that with time to decide.

Tonight we tell our D - a conversation I'm not looking forward too.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17