Yep not worried about it. Whatever, her FB says does not affect me so IDC. She has to figure out what she is doing with her. If she needs to be divorced, that is what she needs to do. I cannot change her and I do not want to expend the energy thinking or trying to change her. The energy I expend for her... all I have left for her, is to pray she gets help and finds happiness. Without divine intervention, I highly doubt that will be the case which makes me sad for her, but not my problem.

Let me take back the part about it not bothering me. I thought if she put divorced, my page would automatically change. It doesn't, so what do I do? I do not want to be reactionary but I do not want to look like the pining H, because I am not anymore. So do I change my status too or do I just let it go. Maybe for a week or so? Oh decisions, decisions.... Well I have a very busy day at work. Any advise on this would be appreciated!


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16