Hey OTW,

I m not trying to brush your opinion off. You are living this , just ahead of me. I value your experience and thoughts.

I have read your update on your thread and I can see why you want to push things. You want closer or and ending of the limbo. You want to know if she is interested in a romantic relationship or not so that you can move forward or move on. I hope you get your answer.

So today is my birthday. Yeah for me.

Anyway looks like W has canceled going to her weight loss club to take me out with the kids for dinner. This is very nice on her part and she said the kids wanted to take me out for my birthday.

This morning I said good morning to W and she said happy birthday. I said with a smile thank you. Said good bye to kids and her and left the house for work.

I am going to enjoy this with no expectations.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016