Here again after 9 years and struggling 4

[roist]

Are you getting any benefit from the exercises? Is there an alternative that could more suit H? Maybe he would be more active if he found another method that suited him.

Regardless it is positive that he is doing them.

I imagine your own feelings are normal enough. Take your time to decide. Let H use that gift of time to become someone worthy of being taken back! The roles have reversed. You have the power.Keep strong.