I'm sorry it's been a long time since I caught up on your thread, I just needed a break from everything. I've read the last few pages about Easter and all of your interactions with your H and once again he is scarily similar to mine with the different H every day and sitting in silence at any mention of anything to do with R etc. Mine is ill and tired all the time too!
It is all so confusing but you seem to be being very level headed about it all - I don't know how you do it! I notice you do the same as me too - analysing why they are being nice and friendly - is it just to keep you sweet until all the house is settled? I find myself doing the same when my H is being nice too. It is so hard to completely detach after so many years together. Just when we think we are there something pulls on our heart strings!
