My wife travels for business at least every 2-3 months. Each trip is for 2-3 days. Sometimes she has had to travel 3 times in 6 weeks. The end of April is for a week. If it is an interesting place she will leave early or stay later, using a weekend to sight see. I do not think she is cheating but I have my fears.
Between my wife's EA/PA and the current state of our marriage I am stressed when she's gone. I was hurt when she had the affair and when shes gone I "wonder". I don't think she's cheating. I think it's rooted in an CBT abandonment schema.
This is an issue of me and my fears, not my wife breaking her vows. With "us" on shaky ground I get anxious when she's gone.
