Ok, so much for not snooping. I have just confirmed that my W is officially WW and is at least having one hell of an EA, if not a PA. She was writing to the full moon and saying that she wants to have a passionate life with OM, she wants him to miss her, he wants him to be open with her, so they can have an open loving relationship. She wants him to not be afraid of giving into his desires and she wants to have a life with him separate from me. She wants him to kiss her passionately. She wants to be OK financially. I AM SHAKING!! I CAN'T BELIEVE WHAT I JUST READ! I want the same things, but I want them with her. OK so here's the thing, he is married, him and his wife are seperated. I know his cousin and I'm gonna pump him for information on his switch. I want to leave so bad, but I don'the want to make a decision now because I am so angry and hurt... I love her, and am willing to do whatever it takes to get her back...but is it too late?...F***K ME...I can'tell believe this is my life...
Sorry you had to find out this way, but aren't you glad the other shoe finally dropped? I had the same haunches but when I found out I was just as devastated. Don't react immediately, take some time to absorb it, so you take your emotions out of it. I reacted too quickly and emotionally and before I searched out the web for advice. Use your advantage here so you can react calmly to this. Gather some advice from veterans and read Sandi's advice on how to deal with WW's.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
