[BrightFuture]

I thought that I’d follow up the post about the depression with another update.

My male friend from the vacation home told me that I need to take the condo mortgage issue into my own hands, as he is not sure H can handle it on his own. This was quite a shocker to me. My mutual friends never told me that H was incapable of doing something. And now they think that he is too messed up to take care of things properly.

What I “see” is that H is trying to take care of things… But, I think it is more like in a teenage way. Subconsciously he understands that he needs to take care of things and he wants to take care of things, but his actions not as mature as one would think… This is just my impression. And he could be just the guy he’s always been, trusting for people to take care of their side of the business. Which is clearly not happening with the condo mortgage and bank trust.

So, my friend’s comment made me worry… I don’t want my credit ruined because of the condo mortgage issue… I just got a car loan and my credit score was somewhere around 830 +. I want to keep it this way, in case I want refi a home mortgage or a car loan, or get another credit on something I need and want. I also worry about H…

Received a text from him that was sent when I was at the vacation home. My phone was off, so I didn’t reply until this morning. In his text he was letting me know that I will be receiving a letter (not sure if is from mortgage company or the bank trust) stating where the escrow money was paid to. He also asked me to pay the usual (“old”) amount for mortgage, which I already did. I replied to him that I paid and that I will wait for the letter. So, he hasn’t dropped the ball yet, he is still trying to resolve this issue. I’m sure it is contributing to his depression, but he is trying not to show it, at least to me.