Wife has filed for divorce

[G8r]

Have to agree with Vapor and CWOL. Fight for your kids. Although there may be a kernel of truth to your WW statement that you have issues to address, she has plenty of her own. It sounds like her toxicity is infecting your D8. I think you should be journaling these interactions in case you need them later. My WW blames me for all our D3 bad behavior and tells me that my anger is bad for D3 to see. Any anger that my D3 or any toxicity she experienced comes directly from my WW. It seems laughable that they accept no responsibility and have plenty of blame to push at you. Keep DBing and you'll be able to hold your head high when this is over. Eventually your D will see who is toxic.

Best to you. Vaya con dios.