At the very least talk to your L. Choosing not to see your kids for an amount of time can look very damaging in the eyes of the court...

And do not believe her. No a word. She is talking out of her ass...

Forget about your fcucking marriage. It is gone, done for, exterminated... It's the kids you fight for now. Lawyer up, get a good one, a shark, do not let her pull the wool over your eyes. YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOURSELF IF YOU WALK AWAY...