Sandi2.. I suppose you are right. She has managed to make me seem like the guilty party and has made a drama of it all by telling all her family and friends what a monster I am...never has her flirting, drug taking or sleeping with other men during our last separation ever come up in conversation! She is turning my D8 against me because she hears the way mommy speaks to her dad. She even calls me by my first name instead of dad when shouting at me..just like my W does.
My W is so righteous and convincing...she has all the answers and knows how to belittle anything I say. Of course it's all my fault...
So how can I make her suffer the consequences?
I messaged her that I would back off as I do not want to cause any division between the girls for however long that may be......she answered saying that it was one of the most sensible things I have ever said and she would never stop me seeing the kids but TO GET IN TOUCH WHEN I FEEL THE TIME IS RIGHT?
What now? Do I just walk away? She doesn't care less!
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?