my wife is a waw! trying everything to save it!

[roist]

Concentrate on you for the moment.initially use this place to help YOU to help YOU. Read as much as possible and relate it to your situation

I understand the pressure you are putting yourself under with the deadline looming. Without belittling your perception of that I would encourage you to try not focus on such deadlines.The date could come and go and nothing could change.SShe could decide to stay illegally. She could go on a world tour next week. You cannot predict nor control this and stressing over it will not change anything except make you feel worse.

Those are easy words to say but I realise can be hard advice to accept.Even if you do not like this advice I say it to help. In order o get the best advice here, you need to give us more specific details. Esp about your M history and recent problems.