Right now I don't feel like saving anyone. Right now I feel the universe as unfair. Couples with kids should not be able to separate! The LBS get's the worst of it all! If he still cares, he will suffer every time he is near his wife during child exchange and kids related stuff. And if he doesn't, he is still forced to look at the wife's face during those same situations! Couples with kids never truly split.
I'm right there with you, man. You said my thoughts perfectly. I truly question now why my WW married me in the first place, and why she pushed to have a child after I held off for 7 years. Being an LBH is just terrible.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016