Hi Anime,

I am sorry you are here. I am also in your shoes and don't know what to do. People here have been wonderfully supportive and insightful. When I am feeling down or desperate, I have been coming here to get encouragement.

There are sadly so many of us that know your pain. Focus on you and gaining strength and confidence. You are going to be OK. There are many of us here that will be rooting for you.


Me - 32
WW - 30
D 11, D 3, D 2
T - 9 years
M - 8 years
BD - 2/16