Wife is in love with another man

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Thanks TX, you are absolutely correct. It certainly does seem to trigger something when she mentions such things. I think they are looking to move to another city after the divorce in final, and that will certainly help with the NC. It hasn't kept me from sleeping or anything, but just seems to cross boundaries I am working on with IC. Plus, feels really weird to provide recipe for her to cook for OM, she seems pretty delusional. I see your wife had MLC with PA, mine has told me she is in MLC and is of course having PA that followed EA. Really love the support here and hope I can pay it forward as so many of you have done.