I'm sure most will say as long as there's a chance, but really, how long should we be willing to wait as a LBS. As long as my spouse doesn't file for divorce, or do something bad in regards to our kids, I believe the longest I'm willing to wait would be one year. If I don't see some major changes towards reconciliation. I don't think I can put my life on hold for any longer then that. What's your time frame?


Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015