M One thing that's been a common theme for me with this was Ws total exhaustion, understand they don't like being alone and in my Ws case she will doze off around 8:30, wake at 12-2 and be up for hours as thoughts flood her ... I can always tell by just looking at her when this has happened more times than not it's a nightly thing, S confirms it though I'm far from asking about it anymore. When we got back together she slept a lot, mentioned how she slept so much better with me being there... Bla bla. He is probably exhausted as job said wearing the masks, and though you aren't seeing it he is probably dealing with the demons in the dark and not sleeping well from the sounds of it.... Which just adds to the whole mess right? Remember when all this started for us and it's all we could do to sleep through the night... It doesn't end for them.