Wife is in love with another man

[shreeve]

Still going good here, we hopefully will sign papers Wednesday (were supposed to sign last week). WW seemed to slow down on the eagerness to get papers signed for a few weeks, which was somewhat puzzling. She is living with OM now and is getting to the point where she feels like sharing some of there activities with me when we see each other weekly. I'm pretty sure that is way out of my boundaries I should have set, but I still listen and am cordial. She seems to want to be friendly and share things, asks for recipes on occasion, just stuff that seems very awkward to me. Still finding my single life legs, but it's a fun process. Haven't had to use any sleeping pills in nearly a month, so I guess things are healing well? I still see IC and go to support group every week. This board and the people here have been such an amazing help in getting through this (I'm probably not "through" yet, but am in a livable / workable / sleep-able state). Thank all of you so much. Hopefully no overwhelming emotions will surface with the paper signing