Happy Birthday, NYGal! I hope you have fun and can put W out of your mind for most of the day.

Maybe best to reply if you're going to so you don't have that hanging over you.

She doesn't know that you know OW was at the house and her car in the garage, does she?

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17