I am seriously considering relocating myself to Switzerland if this goes down. My thought process is that it will be much more difficult to win her back if we are so far apart especially in different continents! I fear however that if I do follow through with such a plan she may see it as I am still pressuring her to stay with me. Do you think it would be best to spend some time apart, if this happens, before I try to move to Europe?
Do you have children that would be leaving with her? If not, I think I'd wait before jumping right into following her to another country. How could it not be seen as you pursuing her? And, what if you were to move there and she would have nothing to do with you? There you would be in a foreign country without any friends or family.....and maybe no job.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
