Getting out of in house S (8)

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My W dropped the bomb, and within two weeks my SIL was trying to get my W to go out with other men. You can't stop your W talking to family/friends, so, worrying about it isn't gonna help your personal needs.

I see your problem about 'friendzone' and not appearing to be a dick about things. Personally, I think you will know when a boundary is being crossed or not, but, if you don't want to do something that isn't in your interest, then don't. I used the 'not gonna be your friend line' and told her I wouldn't forgive her if she moved 230 miles away, and she stayed close. You have got to use it wisely.