Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey OTW and Vapo,

Good questions. I think I need to ignore it. It has done me well to not find this stuff out in the past. It a hard one to let go as with a touch of a button and W forgetting to erase some texts it has the potential to crush me.

I think that knowledge of her sleeping with another man would be my limit. But I really don't know until I get to that point.

I feel that she is gauging her actions on mine. I have not slept with anyone else and she I guess knows that and is going as far as I am with other people. Observation from a distance. If she saw me in a relationship right now, She would do the same. I feel she is straying as far from the MR as I am.

So with all that worry she did not go out last night.

W had a great family dinner.

W talked about the move and was saying that we should share movers, we are going to live about two blocks away from each other and the move wont take long.

Also she is asking me to bring the kids to her new place so we can see it while she get a walk through with her parents on Friday.

She also said if I don't want to do that its ok.

Is this something I should do? I don't know what to say.

I feel I need to state that I wont be her friend that will not do stuff that normally I would do as her husband. And if she wants me to do that type of stuff then it is going to have to include us at least going on dates.

Its a funny time right now and not sure how I navigate between getting friend zoned or not. I was planning on no contact but she is already asking me to do stuff ( Share movers, bring kids to her place).