Originally Posted By: Jb9140
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Your W will probably have consequences and/or losses you won't know about.



I seen you refer to this before. Can you give me some examples. May be some from your experience. Just curious.


Maybe she losses a lot of mutual friends and it really bothers her. If you two were best friends, she losses that and realizes that over time, certainly not in the early stages. Finances are much different for her now. Maybe there is something that you always took care of that now she has to do completely on her own. Maybe her new place is smaller than your place.

The point is that there are a million things that might start bothering her. The cracks show with my WW but they took a long time to hit the surface.