"A question on our custody arrangement, D will stay with me and W will have visitation 2 nights a week and every other weekend at the house (or away if she so decides). I'll make myself scarce when she's there - but do you think this is compromising to much?"
I can not comment on your state but in my state that is pretty darn good. The sooner you start and the longer it goes that way the better. In my state most courts favor the status quo for if it is working. Regardless in my state if she went for primary later they may give her some more days but it is better than 50/50 and they would read into it about 'why was mom willing to give up so much time... must be something bad' Get every second you can with your kids! I envy this agreement and wish I had it in my sitch with my stepboys. If you could even convince her one night a week but it is a good deal for my area of the country. Best wishes to you buddy!
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
