I am in a situation where my wife is displaying all signs of a WAW. The most frightening part is that if she leaves she will be moving back to France. I have been practicing the last resort technique and havent been talking about our relationship or the future. I have been trying to go out with friends and find new hobbies. I have started to refocus myself on getting into shape, since when this went down i lost my care for my eating habits ect. Now I am going to the gym and working out at home. If she leaves and moves back to France I believe she will most likely try to find employment in Switzerland, as we have discussed many times before about moving to Switzerland. I am seriously considering relocating myself to Switzerland if this goes down. My thought process is that it will be much more difficult to win her back if we are so far apart especially in different continents! I fear however that if I do follow through with such a plan she may see it as I am still pressuring her to stay with me. Do you think it would be best to spend some time apart, if this happens, before I try to move to Europe? I am going to continue to do everything in my power to prevent this outcome, I have until May then our lease is up and I believe she will move at that point, she is on a green card and we would have to file before May to have it re-newed, otherwise she will have to leave by the time it expires. Any thoughts on my current short term goals of preventing this? Any thoughts on my plans for a long term plan if I need one?
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First date 12/24/13 M 3/12/14 BD 2/8/16 Working on it alone since 2/8/16 Doing things wrong 2/8/16 Doing things different 3/12/16
