KGirl I'm so excited you moved in that direction! Exactly what Mozza and Ginger said -- except that it shows you exercising healthy boundaries and judgment. Good job.

Why did you say you probably shouldn't have turned your profile back on? And I'm with you -- passively letting things happen for right now, till you feel motivated to be proactive, can be useful in helping you move your mind into the idea of dating without having to actually spend your time on people. There's plenty of time to go looking for who you want down the road, when you feel more enthusiastic about the endeavor.

Happy hunting, KGirl, and keep us posted!!!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.