Yes I have to say this and hope I am not coming across wrong but here goes
First you wanted to take things down so your w couldn't take them. Now you want to stand in the way of her and kids communicating. I'm not sure of the dynamic you and w have but I'm guessing the communication wasn't the best before. Did you both do things out of anger or revenge when you would have arguments?
A lot of these things can be worked out through a talk. She is moving Friday. At this point you need to be the man and have conversations about your expectations of dealing with the kids and whatever you both may need to tie up.
You say you want her back but I see you trying to almost punish her. Believe me she will go through her bouts of punishment on her own.
Again my opinions. Also never get in the way of kids talking to other parent. Both will grow resentment.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
