Originally Posted By: PacLove
A question on our custody arrangement, D will stay with me and W will have visitation 2 nights a week and every other weekend at the house (or away if she so decides). I'll make myself scarce when she's there - but do you think this is compromising to much? It seems like with this she's getting her freedom (not having to sleep at the house/do morning routine) but still remains in my D's life. Knowing her, I think she'll appreciate this freedom as I bare all the household responsibilities. The other side me though thinks that she'll see what she's missing at home when she visits...


I think you're letting her cake-eat with that arrangement. If she is moving out then she should be responsible for your daughter, not stay at the house and kick you out, which is how I'm reading it. You should have an attorney verify the temporary settlement agreement in any case.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016