Yeah I suppose I'm just trying to downplay the whole situation. It is what it is, whether an EA or a PA, she's still being pulled away from the family.

A question on our custody arrangement, D will stay with me and W will have visitation 2 nights a week and every other weekend at the house (or away if she so decides). I'll make myself scarce when she's there - but do you think this is compromising to much? It seems like with this she's getting her freedom (not having to sleep at the house/do morning routine) but still remains in my D's life. Knowing her, I think she'll appreciate this freedom as I bare all the household responsibilities. The other side me though thinks that she'll see what she's missing at home when she visits...

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17