Thanks sandi2. I will go with the advice just too leave it be until she can face what ever reasons and rewrote history she is making. As you say it won't make sense anyway and I need to focus on facts and the future. The fact is I have come up with things (many many things) that I could have done better, and the future gives me the opportunity to work on that and become a better version of the man, father and husband that can take care of the family as I believe God and I would want to and be proud of. One of my goals is to stop trying to fix the past, because I can not, stop predicting and worrying about the future, because it is not written yet, and stay focused and present in the moment serving others and being grateful for what I do have. That is my daily challenge as I fight this darn depression.
Did you have any feedback on my response to your question about the meds?
Thank you for all of your feedback and wisdom.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine