Was this the right thing to do? I am still unsure of what she is referring to about the last 10 years of what she is "wishing for, hoping for and praying for."
Yes, it was the right thing to do. Don't worry too much about not knowing what she's referring to the last 10 yrs b/c she's going to rewrite history regardless.
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She has told me several times that I should just know.
That's not good enough! It sounds as if she's trying to get out without giving any substantial reasons......b/c she knows she doesn't have any. If you want to risk her having another tantrum, you could tell her that perhaps you should just know....but you don't, and would she please just put it into words you can understand. Or, you can assume none of it will make any sense or be anywhere near how you remember things.....and STFU. It's up to what you feel you can endure. However, I don't think you will get a satisfied answer from her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
