Just went downstairs and she was nice and loving to me. She is trying to learn Calligraphy (I surprised her with a kit when she got home from her trip). I let her know that I wasn't trying to magnify faults, but rather commit to helping her change the things that SHE wants to change in herself. She really has very low confidence in herself. Now the bigger problem of course is not really recognizing or wanting to change anything...but I threw enough ideas out there that I'm sure something will stick. I guess I'm attracted to semi-narcissistic, self-loving people.
As I was talking to her, she spelled out a calligraphic sentence which said "Don't be a poop". Then she wrote "I Love You". I told her to write "I Love Me" (encouraging her to love herself more). She did and then quickly added "at" to the end of the sentence.
Boy if she ever started posting on this site, she and hairdog would be a lethal combination.
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