I actually think I was not a controlling W, probably the opposite I was way too supportive and let him control our interactions.

The major complaint that H has was that our relationship is too "volatile". Which has merits. If we got into an argument it would spiral out of control and it was so unnecessary - both at fault - but I am learning that I need to control my reactions, not his.

Would love to know any insights from a H kirklan. Thank you!


Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16