I actually think I was not a controlling W, probably the opposite I was way too supportive and let him control our interactions.
The major complaint that H has was that our relationship is too "volatile". Which has merits. If we got into an argument it would spiral out of control and it was so unnecessary - both at fault - but I am learning that I need to control my reactions, not his.
Would love to know any insights from a H kirklan. Thank you!
Me:33 H:34 T: 3yrs M: 2yrs H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15 H wants to "make it work" 12/28 BD: 3/10/16