So, I am thinking about having a family member pickup the kids from her when we do the swaps. It would be easier for me to do it this way, but not 100% I am not doing this to just get a reaction from her.

This would be more inline with going dark, but eliminate the interactions that we do have where I can act "as if" and look nice/smell nice etc.

Thoughts on the pros and cons of daily interaction vs. absence?