I can understand being more of what you miss. I miss the inside jokes I had with W, how we could talk, and her energy. I miss my family all together. Unfortunately, that is gone and all I have is memories. What I do not miss is how I was treated, like a burden for years, an embarrassment and the control W held over me. What makes it easier is to now look rationally at what my WW did to me. How in front of me she would text OM and discuss it with people, while making a fool out of me. Looking at it rationally WW is not a person who wants to change, who wants my love, who wants to love me. I am ok with that but sad for her, she is going to look back at this and find that it was the biggest mistake she made. Now I have to dedicate myself to make sure that mistake has as little impact on the boys as possible.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16