Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey.

So I found out W best friend is trying to set up W with the best friend from her wedding. W is approaching it slow. She has had opportunity to sleep with him and it didn't happen. It was at her best friends house and W was there with them until two in the morning but her friend told her she did great just staying that late and joked w should sleep over next time, wink wink.

So I have an idea now why w is getting away from the S agreement of us doing holidays together. Its this guy is in the picture, plan A. W friend is trying to get W to bring this guy to W brothers wedding. The wedding I am not invited to. W replied to friend that no her brother doesn't want this guy in his apartment all day alone. I think its a lie. I think she is living two lives right now. One with me and the kids and one when she is with her girl friend and her new husband and his best man. I am mind reading but my guess is she is waiting until the move to do anything.

Bringing him to the wedding would be exposing him to the family and the kids. It would make the end of the marriage real. And the start of this new R real.

So I asked the kids about W girl friend and if they have seen her lately. Its her birthday soon. They lit up and said that W is going to visit her after work, they heard W talking on the phone.

W told me this morning that after work she will be going shopping for pants for work and that her boss is paying for it.

I guess all this means nothing. I could confront her on the lie this morning about after work. As a boundary, I will call out anyone lying to me?

If anything it allows me to get mentally ready for such a possibility.

So S7 needed a password for a game that W know about.

I emailed her for it and asked her if she would be home for dinner. She replied back gave password and said she would be home and that the food I suggest we eat was a good idea.

I am just going to leave it alone for now. Its all mind reading. I just have to keep being the best version of me that I can