So just one other quick tid bit from yesterday. One of my friends is a mess. He is an alcoholic and has lost his license for a long time. Anyway, when everything first happened he messaged WW, told me about it and I asked him not to do it again. When WW was over yesterday, his name came up because I mentioned he was at my house recently. WW then says that he has been messaging her. I was angry about it but didn’t let it show that much.
I thought about it later and thought this was an opportunity. I don’t think I am 100% a ‘nice guy’ after reading No More Mr Nice Guy but I would say I have ‘nice guy’ tendencies sometimes. So I thought this would be perfect for 180 especially seeing how limited my opportunities are. I told her how mad I was at him and how that was unacceptable (with much more colorful language). She sent me some of the messages. I don’t care how drunk you get, that is not right. I told my friend to knock it off and told her to let me know immediately if he does it again. I think this is the type of reaction she was looking for and it really is the type of reaction I should have anyway. Just trying to gain back that respect little by little.
