Welcome to the MLC Forum. It's not the place where you want to be, but I can assure you, you will find a wealth of info here to help you navigate your h's crisis.

I agree w/the ladies, get in touch with a lawyer and find out what your rights are w/respect to the house and the financials. The more info that you obtain, the better for you and do not share that info w/your h. Please do not agree to and/or sign anything w/o a lawyer looking over the paperwork. Do not trust and/or rely on someone in crisis to do the right thing. They are unreliable and will say one thing and do another. Promises mean nothing when it comes to money when it comes to the crisis person. Also, if the lips are moving, they are lying most of the time.

The more knowledge you have, the more power you will have over your situation. Come here to ask questions, vent, share, etc. There is always someone around to listen.

Please take care of yourself.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.