Exactly why that majority of us here do not act on our impulses. We realize that if we did, we would cross those boundaries and break the vows that we have taken. Life always looks better elsewhere until you go there and experiance it first hand. Then the realities of that person, situation, or lifestle hits and the reality is often a big dissapointment and a disaster taking us into territory that we never wanted or intended to go to. We have added complications to our already complicated situations. One impulse acted on may have dire long term consequences for ourselves and our families.
Life needs to be easier, simpler, and happier for all of us. Hopefully that is a fantasy we can experiance as reality again.
