Hi Tamjkar, I say good for you with the therapy and with letting him go. I can see it must be hard to be in the same small town as him and OW and if a fresh start is what you need then go for it. It is good that you can see spots of light in the darkness and are making your own plans. Distance can mean you reduce the chance of possible reconciliation - but I think you need to do what is right for you, and of course there will be a link through your S.
I hope the therapy helps you work through some of your understandable, but difficult feelings & take care xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus