Thanks Job, I thought the same thing about what S said. Obviously he too is at a point where he will not wait on H. He is a smart spunky kid.
Well, I must report, I was completely wrong. My eyes opened out of a deep sleep this morning, 20 seconds later I hear H text tone coming from my phone in the kitchen. I looked at the clock, it was 7:08. I was impressed! Quietly I got up to get my message, S was still asleep, and H said he was on his way, asked if I wanted anything from McDonald's. I let him know S was still asleep, that I would leave the front door unlocked for him. About 10 minutes later he was here, right when S woke up, it was perfect timing.
S jumped into his arms, he was so happy to see him. The egg hunt was on. H commented on how many eggs were around, inside and out, giving me a big smile. After, S asked that I make crepes. While I cooked, H and S were curled up together on the couch, chatting and watching a show. I took a picture, it was so cute, and thought to myself, this is exactly why I don't tell H no when he wants to join us. How can I be the one to take those moments away from them? I just can't. They both loudly appreciated the crepes, S even yelled, yay for mommy!
After, H was asleep and snoring within 5 minutes of eating. I asked S if we should cover him with a blanket. S said no, let's just let him sleep.
After about 45 minutes of dozing, H was back up. He had told me he brought his drone and motioned to me that he was going to get it. All of a sudden, there it was, in front of our back sliding glass door, staring at us. S screamed, dog went crazy. I tried to go outside to see it up close and dog knocked me back into the house to go after it! Lol, she always does that when she protects me. H flew it all around our house. He is so proud of this thing. He came back in, showed us the full video he took yesterday, with my encouragement. I also asked if I could join him and S to use it sometime, it really is fun. H said, yes, of course!!
He left about 11:30, told S to pick a place with mommy to take the drone to.
All in all, it was a nice visit. H was not my H, he was very tired, very obsessed with his drone and iPad he uses to fly it, we would only get fragments here and there of his attention. But he was very polite, friendly and appreciative of being here.
Happy Easter to all, hope you are having a good day.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-